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To attract a King you have to be a Queen...
Mon, 16 Jan 2012
You get what you give
Have you ever heard the old saying ‘treat others as you would like to be treated'? Probably a million times, and yet why does there seem to be such a disconnect of this behaviour when it comes to relationships? We've all been witness to couples where you think "God, she (or he!) doesn't deserve someone like that, why would they stay if they're treated like shit", and we've also got those couple friends who respect and love one another beautifully and were made for each other. The verdict to this?
To attract a King, you have to be a Queen.
Let's for a moment put aside the notion of fairytale endings, and one true loves, and accept that we live in a world where relationships take work, hard work sometimes, mutual respect and taking the lows with the highs. Generally in life, it is a given, that you are always going to get back what you put out, so why would that be any different in a relationship?
I'm going to say it again.
To attract a King, you have to be a Queen. And gents... the exact same applies for you.
To attract a Queen, you have to be a King.
Insecurity breeds insecurity, jealously breeds jealously and bad behaviour encourages bad behaviour. A healthy and loving relationship comes from two mutually respectful people who understand each other and both want to put the work, trust, love and friendship in to one another. If you're going to be insecure and jealous of your partner (not King & Queen behaviour at all) and then get confused or annoyed when your partner turns around and portrays the same jealously and insecurity then chances are you shouldn't be in a relationship to begin with.
If you're single, and wanting to go in to a relationship remember to treat your partner how you want to be treated, with trust, respect, dignity and unconditional love. The same behaviour will be returned, and the great thing about this is, if it's not, you know you've found the wrong one and can end it quickly to continue your quest to find your Prince or Princess.
And always remember - you get, what you give.
Yours in Peace & Love xx